One quick note though: I TOTALLY hear what you're saying about preparing for her to give the D talk, and I think that's fine. BUT, remember the "Act as if" portion of the program here... If you go into this conversation assuming that the D talk is definitely going to happen, you might be sabotaging yourself in your body-language, tone, and general mindset.
Prepare for the worst, up until about 11:00 on Wednesday. Then remember that you have NO idea what she wants to REALLY chat about. Listen a TON, validate as often as you can, and keep an open mind.
You had it all dialed in AT, your preparation was of epic proportions. This is VERY good advice to remember. I really appreciate the positive words.
