Hi Wonder!
VERY interesting post about depression. Your examples really do clarify how it feels. I have dealt with depression with my mom on and off for most of my life and she has said alot of the same things.

I often wonder if my H is depressed...but I know HE has to be the one to seek help!!

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I don't want to crowd him with too much attention... SO, what's a girl to do?



I think you answered your own question....PATIENCE!!!! Doesn't it drive you crazy?? You want to scream from the roof tops so your H will hear..."hey look at me...look how wonderful I am...give this another try..."!!! But you know you can't, just keep up the positive attitude and have patience!!!

(((((WONDER)))))


Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)