I think your going to get the your stalling speech.

If she does drop the D talk then say back. Well your lawyer should talk to my lawyer or just send the paperwork my way. I will get it reviewed in time.

Good thing about meeting at a Restaurant is that there is menu ... food... other people to fill in the quiet moments.

And you can excuse yourself to the washroom to wash hands, nature call etc... when you think your heart is going through your chest and your tearing up.



But if you really want to throw her for a loop. Control the conversation from beginning to end.

Your topics. And anything she says that is uncomfortable.

You reply

"Wife. I have given this a great deal of thought.... He is what I think on that..... ( Quick answer )... What is next on the list... ( IF there is a pause ) Well Wife. I have been thinking about this (Subject ) this is what I have decided...."

You pull that off. You will be in the drivers seat for awhile and she will leave thinking... WTF.... He is not so broken anymore... Wonder what has him walking so tall...

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