I agree, talk is cheap, but in this case I'm taking it all pretty seriously. My H threatened D many times and I effectively gave him the excuse he was looking for. I still think it's pathetic not to try but I'll just keep DB'ing. When I was lost in OM1 I was reluctant to try too. It is part of the spell I guess. I guess the one advantage I have in this case is I know what it's like to be infatuated with OP.
In any case, H's birthday is coming up and I will ask him to dinner. If he says no we'll have a family dinner with the boys. I am anticipating him saying no to going out to dinner but will try nonetheless.
Me54, H53 M 23, T 25 S20, S18 BD: April 2024 Moved out: August 2024
Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.
"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page