Good luck tonight, Wendylon. I was thinking, what if you attempt to bring touching back into your M? It could start by a friendly touch when you pass by him, and if this is well received, a kiss or hug or cuddling in the AM, which ideally would evntually lead to intimacy--even if it's not the actual act itself. I think this would really help bring you guys closer.
I'm very affectionate, and right before my H announced he was filing, he started to reject my affection. That's when I knew something was really wrong, bc in the past, and no matter our sitch, he wouldn't keep his hands off me. Anyway, just a thought.
PS. I'm more and more convinced your H exhibits ADD traits. My H also created goals, posted them on the wall, followed them for a week or two, and then it was all out the window...
