Not sure that I'd suggest the place that the two of you met. Too transparent what you would be doing.

I don't know Rough. I had these conversations at restaurants, in the car, and in my home... all three. For my W and I, I don't think that the setting made much of a difference. For me, I just wanted to be sure that I was some place where I was comfortable. For example, I avoided these types of conversations in her home (the place that she rented during our S).

The car isn't great, and maybe a bit ghetto to actually suggest it. I'd suggest the pizza place or the house (the one that you live in).

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce