Hi Wonder - Yes, I can see the similarities in our sitches. Cross your fingers and hope he's put on an antidepressant that works. Remember that anger and irritability are also signs of depression, so be careful not to take it too personally. Act As If, be as happy and upbeat as you possibly can when you see him - when he's already depressed, it's just too hard to deal with the drama of the R problems too. And keep working on your 180's and interesting new things in your life - let him see the real you that was hidden under the thyroid problems.