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Re: Sitting on the Blanket Wendylon #2289707 10/15/12 10:23 PM
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OP bustingout Member B Joined: May 2012 Posts: 2,595	Hi Arsene thank you for sharing that beautiful story. lots of hug to you (((( )))) Wendylon---thank you for coming by. I really appreciate the support and of course all of the hugs :-) sending some right back to you. journal... today is Hs 40 th bday. was a bit blue today just reminded of all the other birthdays we spent together (since he was 17), and reminded of how things are so different now (he is celebrating in Dubai with OW). but...i got through it...much better than i thought i would. it was hard for awhile, but here i am, and the end of the night and i am ok. its reality. he is with her. his focus is on her. so i need to focus on me (ok it doesn't sound like it right now because i was focused on him today...what i mean is that i m trying to accept the reality of my sitch). who knew a year ago ( i remember it well his birthday) that we would be here today. I mean last year i threw a big party for him but he was spewing at me all of the time....you know....when answers become grunts and bits of spittle instead of actual words.... this year he is not here, he is with her. However, the grunts have turned into words, he is engaged again with his kids and there is less spittle on my face from his spew. But thats all about him and his journey. My journey. I Will continue to work on me. to detach and to grow. D or no D my path is the same. My happiness lies in me and my children right now. i am learning to accept myself and forgive myself ...maybe i will be able to love myself one day too. I want to be the besting busting i can be. i love you all so much...i do not have enough words to express what you mean to me, how you have helped me and how grateful i am. thank you all. have a good night. (((( )))) will start a new thread.... TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home

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Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/25/12 06:39 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Breakdown	09/25/12 07:01 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/25/12 07:04 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/25/12 07:17 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/25/12 07:56 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/25/12 08:32 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	longrun	09/25/12 08:40 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	figure-it-out	09/25/12 09:19 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	afa75	09/26/12 12:34 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/26/12 06:11 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/26/12 06:24 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	JustStunned	09/26/12 08:25 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	scaredsilly	09/26/12 09:37 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/27/12 04:15 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/27/12 04:34 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/27/12 08:09 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/27/12 09:12 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	labug	09/28/12 01:17 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/28/12 12:19 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/28/12 03:06 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/28/12 03:50 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/28/12 04:25 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/28/12 09:44 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	NLW	09/28/12 09:53 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	afa75	09/28/12 10:33 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	09/29/12 02:35 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/29/12 05:09 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/29/12 07:00 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	2chiquitos	09/29/12 07:23 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/29/12 07:47 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/29/12 07:25 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	09/29/12 07:29 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/29/12 07:48 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	zig	09/30/12 12:35 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	afa75	09/30/12 12:46 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/30/12 04:47 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/30/12 04:47 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	zig	09/30/12 06:04 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/30/12 07:44 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	09/30/12 11:20 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	scaredsilly	10/01/12 01:10 AM
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Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	10/01/12 06:22 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	labug	10/01/12 01:50 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	zig	10/01/12 01:59 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/01/12 07:35 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	2chiquitos	10/02/12 05:03 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	labug	10/02/12 01:35 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/02/12 05:11 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	LITB	10/02/12 05:23 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	~ kd ~	10/02/12 05:58 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/02/12 06:17 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/02/12 06:24 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	LITB	10/02/12 06:27 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/02/12 07:13 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Tumbling	10/02/12 07:53 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/02/12 08:04 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/03/12 10:04 AM
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Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Tumbling	10/06/12 07:38 PM
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Re: Sitting on the Blanket	scaredsilly	10/08/12 09:32 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/08/12 09:34 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	StubbornDyke	10/09/12 02:04 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	jks	10/09/12 06:31 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/09/12 08:02 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/09/12 06:09 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	LITB	10/09/12 08:04 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	10/10/12 01:02 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/10/12 03:35 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 05:01 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Jack_Three_Beans	10/10/12 05:11 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/10/12 06:13 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Cadet	10/10/12 06:25 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Jack_Three_Beans	10/10/12 06:37 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 08:22 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 08:23 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	NLW	10/10/12 09:25 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	jks	10/10/12 09:35 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/12/12 08:20 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Arsene	10/12/12 11:32 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/13/12 05:05 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/13/12 05:24 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/13/12 05:48 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	10/13/12 07:03 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/13/12 09:47 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Cadet	10/13/12 10:15 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/13/12 10:35 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	labug	10/13/12 01:56 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Tumbling	10/13/12 04:48 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	StubbornDyke	10/13/12 05:50 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	afa75	10/14/12 12:23 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Arsene	10/14/12 03:59 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	2chiquitos	10/14/12 05:23 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/14/12 03:20 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/14/12 06:05 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Arsene	10/15/12 01:52 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	Wendylon	10/15/12 07:20 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/15/12 10:23 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	keep_going	10/13/12 05:06 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 08:20 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 04:58 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/10/12 04:52 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	afa75	10/09/12 07:11 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/09/12 07:05 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	scaredsilly	10/06/12 08:23 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/07/12 04:44 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	NLW	10/07/12 05:18 AM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/07/12 03:58 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	2chiquitos	10/06/12 08:44 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	needgrace	10/02/12 06:28 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	10/02/12 07:16 PM
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Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/27/12 04:10 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	bustingout	09/26/12 06:09 PM
Re: Sitting on the Blanket	StubbornDyke	09/27/12 12:17 AM

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