I think you've got a great base here Rough. And I agree with Denver that you should add the "Where" in there too. I'd actually take his points literally: Suggest a place that's neutral, one where you'd feel very comfortable, and a place that you guys used to visit together.
You definitely seem to be doing a good job of "thought-stopping" wondering what might come of this meeting. I commend you for that, as it's something I know we struggle with quite a bit.
And look at it this way: No matter WHAT happens, you'll leave the conversation with more information than you went there with. And that's ALWAYS empowering.
Yup ^^
Go into it completely prepared to listen and validate. I would do very little talking.
Do not feel compelled to decide anything. When in doubt, "I don't know W. I will have to think about that and get back to you."
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
