Hi Wonder..don't kow if you have read my thread this past week..but I just ran through yours, and in Jan.I had posted to you that it looks as if my m was heading for d..well look at how fast things have changed for me..h wants m to work..you had asked earlier how long it could take..well, my h has bben gone for about 1 1/2 years..and another 3 years before that we started the drifting...so don't put any time frame on it...if you are serious about piecing your m..only God knows how long it will take..and you have to be prepared to ride it all out..it is not easy...reread some of my past threads..I had many doubts...was finally reolved to live on my own...and then things have turned.