What happened to you? You haven't posted to your thread for a while and it's now locked. I've been rather preoccupied with my situation so haven't kept up with others' much.
Wonder, you wrote -
Quote: And I know that if we were approaching our financial health together, we'd be able to turn it around very easily for both of us. If we are going to be together, seems to me we could be making life a lot easier for both of us right now.
I'm in a similar situation right now. It is very frustrating, especially as my H has told me many times that my lack of financial contribution helped to kill his feelings for me... although he omitted to tell me this even once before the bombshell!!!!
Now I'm earning a bit (and business is growing), and he is forced to live out in the boondocks, and he's complaing about it, it doesn't make any sense. If we pooled our income we would be fine.
Of course, that's not a reason to get back together, but I'm still trying to figure out what the reason for his leaving us REALLY is...
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
