I know it’s important for me to remember that any interactions with W is an opportunity. I will need to do a lot of listening and validating. My reply to her email will probably go something like this.
"I am available at noon this Tuesday or Wednesday, just let me know. Have a good day W."
How about the 'where'? A neutral place? A place where you feel like you have the 'home field advantage'? A place where you and your W used to hang out?
I'd give her a couple of suggestions.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce