I know SG, I understand. There’s no way around the pain, other than going through it. Personally, I’ve had to deal with an affair and anxiety. Back to the FB thing, a lot of it has to do with self-preservation. I know this might sound a bit odd but I view it as snooping, in a quasi way. It all depends, if you feel the intel is important, go for it. I take a strong stance on this subject because my W did a lot of questionable things when it comes to FB.
I can now look back to the beginning of our separation, when we lived together. I would have done a lot of things differently. I didn't go out on a limb because I didn't want to stir the pot over an array of issues. I believe your reading some books, which ones? I am sure it’s posted in your thread but what are some of YOUR shortcomings and what’s W’s biggest complaints? __________________________ Freshman class of 2012 Me(M):38 W:43 Together: 14 Married: 11 D: 4 S:8 W wanted separation 5/5/12 Stopped living together 5/5/12
“Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude”. Thomas Jefferson
