I posted this on my thread in Newcomers as well...
H mentioned during our dinner the other evening that he is considering leaving our dog temporarily with OW instead of having me care for him. This is because OW has another dog for him to play with and because he thinks having our rambunctious dog is a lot for him to put on me. He has not made a decision, just something he's thinking about because he can't have the dog in his new place.
I am not at all comfortable with this. I just listened to his rationale and told him it was up to him but that I knew what dog care entailed and was happy to have the dog here. I am still feeling very uncomfortable with the whole idea.
I think I need to tell him how uncomfortable I am with this... otherwise I am concerned it's going to breed mistrust between us a time when we are learning to trust each other again.