I do have a question that I would like answered. I know that the book addresses this a little, but I need more specific. Why am I considered selfish by her for wanting to save the marriage?
I never thought much about it, but I guess I can see how the WAW could see the LBS as being selfish. Since the LBS isn't going along with the plans for separation, they're making it more difficult for WAW. The WAW could interpret this as you being selfish and only caring about your feelings and desires.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done
