Hello..you seem to know what direction youa re going..that's what alot of this place is all about..I know that I would not be the strong person I am without all the help from the BB..I have lived this past year as if my h won't be coming back home, and it looks almost pretty sure he won't be, but we are very good friends...and I feel confident that I will survive on my own..scared to death..yes, but strong enough to live each new day that dawns.

Keep foccusing on what you need to do for yourself

Sue