Drop that yardstick and get another that has to do with things you control.

Write a gratitude list.

Volunteer somewhere. I find that the best way to get my mind off my problems and really put them in perspective.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss