Decided to start a new post since the other one is getting too long.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2278105#Post2278105

Last post made:

"Ugg just found out my wife is trying to plan a play date with this dudes kids and my kids from her Facebook messages. We have been separated for almost 3 months and she is doing this. They are not even dating....he still to this day has not called her. She is still the one initiating the contact. Is it just me or is bringing my 6, 3, and 1 year old kids around this guy and his kids inappropriate? Is this common for spouse who walk away from a marriage. I don't even know how to confront her about this because she will know how I found out. And yet again I find myself feeling sorry for her and not angry. How could this even be remotely ok to do in her mind? My wife is a social worker.... A child therapist to boot who deals with kids that go through devorces on a weekly basis and see how this crap traumatizes them. And she is not dumb she has a masters degree and passed the test to be a licensed socialworker. I am telling you aliens took my wife and replaced her with what I see now.

Oh and I also found out the last of my pictures were taken down and wedding stuff taken out of our display case.... Guess she does not want new guy to see this stuff........

I cant wait till Tuesday when I talk to my DB coach."


M:30
W:31
D:6&1
S:3
Married 9 years 8/8/2012
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Bomb Dropped: July 2012
Legally Separated: 8/3/2012