additionally - she is home when my son comes home from school everyday now and hos to do homework with him - I used to be home 3 days a week while she worked -

To be more honest about it the main reason I went out was because I had a feeling she was gonna go out and I didn't want her to -- she was out till 5am the previous night and out 2 other nights in the week and I was pissed about it I tried to control her and it backfired on me I think - one of the rules is don't try and control and I did -- not saying I didn't have a great time with my cousin but it's not the only reason I went there.

If someone decides there is no goodness in you they won't be able to see it.
I'll take a BLT over a MLC anyday !!!