Arsene makes sense. It might be good for you to stay at your parents' for a month and give her some space. Continue DBing.
Also, continue doing your own activities away from home (when she is supposed to take care of the kids.) Maybe join a group of new people who are not aware of your sitch. Something to think about.
Can you expand on this: "Actually revealing more (including negative hints of a possible future versus just negativity)"
Finally, the coach will really help you. You'll see. Request Jody. She's the best.
