Quote: It would seem that in order for the WAW spouse to find their balance, they need to grieve for the damage they've caused by their past discretions and face some very unpleasant realizations.
Indeed Jeannine. My H says he has written me a number of letters but never sent them, due to unsureness, cowardice etc. Also says he needs to find the ground underneath his own feet perhaps even more than I do! Well, that's a turn up for the books, as at bombshell time he was painting a picture of me as a shadow, a wreck, someone who was crumpled and pathetic, and I took great objection to being depicted that way!
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
