The answer to that question is a little complicated. You see, there was a falling out with my W and two of her best friends. The details of that are long and I'm not sure I quite understand it all myself, but I don't think it is necessary to get into that here. Anyway, she would always have them as confidants to air out her feelings to. This falling out happened over the past 2 years or so. I wasn't going out and having a good time with her so the OM was the one that was there to lend an ear to as a friend. He was the only one that hadn't hurt my W in her eyes. IF that makes any sense...


Me - 32
Wife - 31
No kids
Married - 3
Together - 6
"I need space" - July 2012
Bomb/Presence of OM - August 2012
Separation - September 2012