Quote: I think the cave time helped in Jeanine's husband's case also, as I recall.
You recall correctly, Tal. Cave time was essential in my H's recovery.
And as Tal pointed out, your H may have been, and possibly still is, depressed. Again, not uncommon.
It would seem that in order for the WAW spouse to find their balance, they need to grieve for the damage they've caused by their past discretions and face some very unpleasant realizations.