"My kids are so sad and I keep telling them that this was His choice."

be careful not to put your kids in the middle. a statement like this puts blame on your H. both people are to blame when a M goes south. blaming will not help anyone, least of all your children.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing