Bc we lived together and have a son we have to go trough an obligatory meeting when seperating. This will be about arrangements concerning our child etc.

Tomorrow we will meet and talk for a bit, so we have a general idea on how to proceed. Pretty nervous though.....how can I express my wish for reconciliation down the road w/o coming across as needy or even 100% certain in my wish?

I guess at this point I'm just curious about where she stands on the issue, but I got a feeling she wouldn't be comfortable with spilling her guts. I mean, I'm not even 100% sure myself what I want. I want reconciliation down the road, but not without us learning and growing from this.

Not a lot of replies here, anyone have some advice?

Together for 8,5 years.
S2
Interest in OM.
She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out.
No signs of OM, not digging.
Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.