What do you mean by saying that you wonder whether you should just let him go? Do you mean kick him out? Stop DBing with him in mind? I certainly agree that you need to detach as much as possible and focus on GAL.
When I wrote that I was ready to give up the ghost and just tell him fine, you can have your D.
I'm definitely having trouble with the detachment but I've also been getting pretty good results doing the opposite.
Me54, H53 M 23, T 25 S20, S18 BD: April 2024 Moved out: August 2024
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