Ok everybody I need some major help! Some quick background information is as follows. My wife and I have been together for 8 years. Lived together for 7 of those years and married for a little over 2 of them. She recently turned 29 and I just past my 30th birthday. About five weeks ago we were on a beach in jamacia, and now she is moving into her own place. Within two days of us returning from jamacia she tells me she is unhappy and packs her bags and leaves to her parents home. This completly stunned me, i really did not see this coming. Needless to say I cried begged and pleaded to no avail. Over the last four weeks since she has been gone, shes spent every weekend out of town with a different friend, spends mostly every work night at a bar. Her parents are completly stunned and say they dont even know who she is. Her attitude with her family has dramaticaly changed. Also during the past four weeks she has asked "have dinner with me" on days that she has come over to pack. I am just stunned on how quickly she is moving. she took her ring off almostly immediatly after leaving, says we are beyond hope, she loves me but is not in love with me and she doesnt want to try to fix it. One day i am on a beach with her and four weeks latter she has her own place! Im so lost so confused! Whats going on!. I bought the book divorce remedy and completed reading up to the end of step 7.