To add just a few more "highlights" from the convo as listing them all would be taxing for myself and evreryone...
W said she didn't want to trade in our kids / have to share them all to have his full time.
I told her I wish she would have shook me months ago when she played the Jason Mraz "I will never give up" song as I didn't hear it then, but do now.
I shared that we have the opportunity to show our kids how to handle life in the face of adversity, at least that's what I'm doing. She cried. Took it the wring way. I quickly clarified. She said chances of us getting back together are "slim".
I told her that I doubt she'll find anyone who will stand by her side as much as I have; and that she'll need that kind of support when she starts therapy.
A lot of what occurred / was said during the convo may not have been true DBing, but it is done for now.