It is your job to be the best man you can be, to be the best spouse you can be, and to learn marriage-friendly attitudes and behaviors, including learning how to understand and fulfill your partner's needs.
If you do these things, you don't need to "fight for her" because you'll be the obvious best choice. I think your GAL activities and your approach to date has equalized the power in the relationship, so often the WAS calls all the shots. You're in a good place -- stay there.
Accuray
This is powerful Acc. I need to learn it, live it and be it. Thank you for the inspiring post.
Son and I walked by a wishing well earlier today and before we tossed our coin in I told my son we could share our wishes just this ONE time. I had an idea but I couldn't be certain what he was thinking. He said he wanted all this stuff between mom and dad to end and he wanted things to be like they used to. I remained strong but I surely struggled to hold back my tears.
