1. You need to find a place where you are comfortable to go alone, we all need sanctuaries from our sitch.
2. This is a passive aggressive comment made by your wife "I'm not sure why I tell you where I'm going, but at least I tell you"
3. You are allowing her to do the no-responsibility room-mate thing. People treat us the way we teach them. Things will get as good as you can stand.
4. She was really excited about winning a prize, if there was something going on I think that wouldn't have been so high in her thoughts.
5. Is SHE calling you an a$$hole when you ask for help w house stuff? Have you tried - I'm really struggling with x is there any chance you could Y this week? And then drop it.
6. Game-playing in any shape or form is a no-no. You can not effect a reaction in someone else. The only person you can control/effect is YOU - that includes thoughts, feelings and behavior.
Hope you caught a BIG fish.
ME41 H39 T12 M9 Ilybinilwy 10/2010 H moves out 11/2010 H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011 Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012 Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-) "Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"
