Just a quick update while still on my trip. First thank you all for the advice given. I am rereading the already written advice as it is a great source of knowledge and inspiration to follow what I know will be the correct path for me.
I have to be brief, but again things are going well as we are spending time together and she is reacting differently to me (all in a positive way) and has mentioned noticing more of my changes and that she likes them. Also, the family member of hers who is also here has noticed some of the changes too...I think.
Unfortunately, there was a bit of digital contact w OM but it was in order to perpetuate her lies to him about this trip.
The brief plan is to avoid them having face to face contact before our next trip, next week, then confront w clear boundaries. More later when I get time.
