To be honest that's why you haven't been successful. I know it [censored] but to a certain degree you have to understand why she was doing things from her point of view. You don't have to agree with it, but it's understandable how she got there.
And if you don't change and continue to bash your W in front of your kids and agree with them in not seeing her, etc. then YOU're the bad father here.
It's your job to be the better man.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
