FY thanks. I was struggling on this one and will do as you suggest. Well 13 really has been unlucky for some. I wish I could look forward to the 14th year of M but somehow I don't think I've seen the worst yet. W moving out is only a matter of time and I am still less than 2mths post BD. I just wish I'd discovered all this 13yrs ago. Then I cld have loved her properly how she needed to be loved.
