vero (((( )))) i have to agree with something here...you need to take time out for yourself. when the BD first happened to me i did take on too much because i felt so guilty for the broken R. And i was not a motive, happy, nurturing parent for it. i was frustrated, angry, short tempered.
It was about 6 weeks ago, when H was in town, that i finally asked him to take over bedtime completely while he was here. It was temporary, but it meant i got my own time every night from right after dinner. it was bliss and i didn't realize how much i needed it. I said goodnight to the kids after dinner and then he took them up, showered them, read to them, etc etc until they slept. I, in the meantime, did whatever i wanted. Long shower, movie, a chat with friends on the phone, read...etc.. I needed it Vero. i needed it for my sanity and to reenergize.
Being a single parent is HARD and you know it.
You need to take care of yourself. this is ESSENTIAL for you to be the best parent you can be. And that means time away from them as well.
Vero we are in already in sh!tty situations as it is...we have to give ourselves the best opportunity to be the best parent and sometimes that means handing over the kids to H so you can make Vero number one for awhile.
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TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
