labug, this is so true. oh i completely relate to the wanting it done NOW feeling and that gnawing feeling of wanting to lash out and say "hello!...is this happening or not' kind of response (sarcastic, passive aggressive...) . That was one of my first 180s with my sitch. to tame that beast.

Maybe wait until next weekend since he did say this weekend or next, and if he doesn't...then just quietly find some other way to get it done. no anger, no problem. I do have to say, when i have been able to control that part of my brain...i have found H comes through with what he says more often than when i used to go down the other path. Its not necessarily as fast as i would want it...but the end result is the same....

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home