((((((((((((((busting)))))))))))))

not sure if it is applicable, but i am reminded of the stockdale paradox for both of us today..

i think we are getting sidetracked, like some of the other POWS Stockdale saw, in setting arbitrary timelines in our minds for their progress (like spouse will turn around before filing or not go to dubai now that he has made some positive steps) that cause us to SINK when we figure out that they will not be met...

i know for me.. i need to face the reality that my W is with OW and nothing will happen until that ends.

love you busting ((((((( )))))))))


Me(f): 51 W: 41
DP:8 M:3 T:10
"W not happy" 7/11
D final: 8/13