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Originally Posted By: leopoldstotch
Ed if that exchange doesn't resonate with you then nothing will. Cut your losses and move on with your life. You know who she really is . She is showing her true self to you. Move on without her itO's time. How long can u continue being her doormat? 3years is long enough. Man up Ed. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.


Just so i am clear, which exchange are you referring to?

Her canceling out from picking up our boy Friday night.

Or

The negative text about the bagpipe song.

Regardless, it needs to be stopped.

I must have some attachment disorder.

But, i admitted my mistake and i have not been responding to her texts until several hours have passed. I am keeping the responses brief. I am tending to getting my finances caught up by putting my work property up for sale. I got ahold of my website creator and host to regain access to my administrator control panel to start getting leads for estimates once again.

So, with the exception of me phoning her that Amazing Grace song, where else am I currently going wrong?

Remember, i only came to the decision to detach from her on September 27th.

Yesterday, I Think i did good. She texted in the morning that she would be 1/2 hour late to our sons karate class and another text to remind me to pack his 3-DS game. I did not respond to either and when she did show up, kept conversation minimal and just to the point of her time and schedule with him for the afternoon.

She called me later to see where we could meet for her to drop him off back to me. Since i was in the opposite direction of my home, and closer to where she was at, she suggested i come pick him up at the bowling alley she was at.

When i got there, she still had a half hour left with him, but she said she wasn't feeling good, so had me take him then.

I want to see what you see that i am still doing wrong.

I also want to know what i am doing right too.

My goal is not to try to get her back anymore and i don't think i will waiver on that issue anymore. Her lifestyle and motherly care are not desirable to me. I don't see her changing. She is enjoying the party scene and having fun. Missing her own son is not a consequence to her.

I will keep working to improve me and my sons lifestyle.

Ed


Me, 55 W, 36
T, 10 yrs
S-9
M, 8 yrs
1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa
2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa
W, AA relapse early 2009-Current
W moved out 2-16-2012
New OM 5-2012