Rough, you wouldn't wish your W a nice day? I always wish my H a nice day (or something similar) when we communicate via txt or email. For too many years I didn't do that. We slipped into the verbal shorthand that happens to so many couples that didn't include the niceties you would extend to acquaintances. I don't do it and worry about his reaction, I do it because I want to change who I am and, I would like for him to have a good day.
Lots of gossip and mind-reading, don't put too much stock in any of it.
Keep your eyes on you.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss