Ok, so maybe little instead of no expectations. I sincerely hope your recent expectation comes true for you.
So while out with the kids, I had a few thoughts, how many times have I out her needs first, too much, to the point of her being selfish. (eg me always being the one who handles a kid if they're upset at a function, while she remains at the function, putting my needs last). I may have posted this earlier in one of my threads, but it is something I need to remember to ward off evil. and better myself.
Oh side note, on my last post, D11 asked what I was doing while I was typing, "blogging?". I told her sort of / kind of. . I've been honest with her about what I do on my phone, occassional, text, sports, reading, and "blogging" now.
Last thing for now (i think), W and I obviously have mutual friends on FB, including a couple that OM has friended, so not in a passive aggressive way, I can only wonder what he thinks when he sees comments and such. I'm doing what I would do prior to the bomb, so don't take it as a passive aggressive way. That too, is what it is.