Quote: I haven't posted for a while, since nothing new was going on really, but now I think I am even loosing my own, my wondelful libido.
Hi, I've created a new name for myself, but I've read and contributed for a while.
My libido has completely gone, too. I don't even think about sex. It never enters my mind; I could care less. I used to be an HD wife married to a LD/ND spouse. By the time we got into counseling and worked through his problems I was diagnosed with clinical depression. Granted the no sex from him was not the sole reason for the depression, but it surely did not help.
I've been on meds since October. I feel better physically (am losing weight), mentally (I can get out of bed and work)and emotionally. I'm getting out and meeting people and am once more interested in my hobbies.
But the libido is gone. Completely. Now . . . if my hubby shows interest and initiates, I won't turn him away. But since he's LD anyway it's not too often. I think it's been about a month or month-and-a-half. So now our sex drives are even.
