You've been in my mind, Regretful. I really hope that you're bearing up on your weekend.

I really like Denver's advice. I hope you find solace on this forum with the knowledge that others have been in your sitch and that the advice is tried and tested.

What do you mean by saying that you wonder whether you should just let him go? Do you mean kick him out? Stop DBing with him in mind? I certainly agree that you need to detach as much as possible and focus on GAL.

Hang in there and I'm sending you much courage.

Me: 51
H: 52
T: 23 yrs
M: 19 yrs
S18, D16, S14 (special needs)
PA: 2003/2004
Piecing: 2004 on
Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012