Sunny, I'm sorry your wife had a temper tantrum, but you have to ignore it. The next time she pulls this crap, just tell her you were working late and and I'm sorry you feel the way that you do.
Right now, she's going to pull out all of the stops like telling you not to go to the wedding or you need to come home early so that the sitter can go home, etc. She's forgetting one thing...she's an adult too w/responsibilities.
Please do not allow her tantrums to change your path. Continue to be mysterious, go out and have some fun. After all, isn't she doing the same thing to you? Her anger is creating her projections of what she actully wants to do and unfortunately, you beat her to the punch.
I know it's difficult to deal w/the mlcer, but you have to change your view of her and look at her as a teenager trying to find her way in an adult world.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
