Tumbling, it seems your H is becoming more responsive and approachable (even if it's only by text.) I would count that as progress.
The biggest progress is your attitude. Detaching from outcome is one of the hardest things to do in life, but what most spiritual masters recommend to achieve enlightment.
Let us know if your H helped you out. Also, I would not have any R talks at this point, even if he brought it up. If he brings it up, you can listen and say you'll be thinking about what he said. That's what my coach would've said.
