I looked at it like this, the more my W was wondering or worried about what I was thinking AND doing when we weren't hanging out a lot, the more her mind was on ME. The more her mind was on me, the less it would be on OM.
It gets them thinking about us. You don't want them to be thinking how you're a d!ck, but you also don't want them to think that you are completely like she expects you to be. Want them wondering.
When you are polite by responding, but short AND flat (no emotion or excitement) with your response, I think that what you are communicating is
"we are drifting farther and farther apart, I may be moving on, and you may be losing me. Think about that."
Good point there Denver. I'm hearing you mate.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
