Our "inner voice", pre-self improvements, usually got us here.
Food for thought.
Starsky
Yes Starsky I agree. And a lot of the advice I'm getting here seems like what the old me would have done. I know that your strong aggressive approach worked for you and perhaps one day, it's something I'll need to consider.
I also know that most people wouldn't even consider doing what I am doing now (heck a couple years ago I'd have ridiculed anyone who would have - in fact, I though my SIL was pathetic for doing just that - they are now happily re-united btw). It's not always easy. In fact, it's never easy but it's what I feel will allow me to move forward and live with myself more easily, for now.
Please keep your comments coming. I always appreciate hearing different opinions. Cheers mate!
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then