best and worse thing to ever go through

[littleGTO]

Hi, eyesopen,
I just read your entire sitch. Our sitch's are somewhat similar--OP in picture (EA only as of now); kids involved; my H has just put a least down on an apt and is planning to leave in 3 wks.

We are all on a rollercoaster ride--I can tell u are by all your posts. One day you're up and one day you're down, another you are spinning upside-down. Point being you are doing a GOOD job with DBing. I have felt many of the same emotions but am NOT doing a good job GAL , so I will take some inspiration from you.

Detaching is very difficult--I can tell you are struggling with this day-to-day (at least internally). I get an "F" with this so I don't have advise for you...but someone earlier in your thread said to keep the end goal in mind at all times. DOn't give in to your immediate emotions/thoughts...keep the marathon in mind.

Your w may very well be pushing the D right now, but it's not over til it's over...and with kids it's never over. Keep doing what you're doing and at some point she will realize what she's missing (& if she doesn't it is her loss!).

GOod luck and keep up the good work!