Acceptance - My next challenge.

[Arsene]

Yes, I'd agree that you are following the guidelines. Everything you've done can probably be found in the book.

But what about "Doing what works"? Do you see your plan working? Now or even in a year or two? If you can answer yes to this question and have no problem sticking to it then you're good to go. My only suggestion would be to stay flexible enough to consider other options. That is one of the great things of being here. We get to hear many different viewpoints which gives us more options to consider. I kinda like it when folks tell me I'm f'n up. It challenges me to think!

Thanks FY. I don't know if this is going to work in a year or two. Who can? But as I said, I've seen huge improvements in my sitch, in my interactions with my W. Hell I even noticed last night that W had "liked" two of the many pictures of our family days that D8 had posted. The only two pictures of the 3 of us together. I think what I'm doing got her thinking.