H said he is still planning to move out. he has already signed a 6-mo lease and said he would probably regret it if he did not take advantage of this "opportunity." I'm so sad, but not surprised after all these months of talking about it. I told him I think he needs to do whatever he needs to figure things out and "find himself." (DB?!)
However, after the incident last weekend his comments about the move are a little different. Now he says things like "well, at least I'm committed for 60 days" (me--meaning I don't have to be gone the whole 6 months?); "I wonder where I'll be at Christmas" (me--apt or Home?); "i think it'll be good for ALL of us (me--meaning who??) He also said maybe he'll change his mind(about moving out) after talking with his new counselor (I pray his new counselor is good!) this week.
He also talked about what we should say to our boys...try to make it as positive as possible (me--really???). He says he wants to say something like "Daddy needs some space to work on the problems I'm having (they know he's been dealing with "problems" ) and sometimes being home is not the best place to do that." blah blah blah
At least he's willing to take the "blame" for the move out. He wants me to try not to be an emotional mess when we tell them, as he feels that will "set the tone" for the move out. I'm NOT that good of an actress.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
