No need to thank me bro...you are the one doing it. I'm just some due typing my pc
I agree that YOU should NOT rush it..not at all. Let me ask you a question... Do you know what YOU need her to DO for YOU to EVEN consider taking her back? If not, then maybe you should write it down..sit on it, think about it.
Once you have a list then maybe you can share some of it with her. I think you have a little ways to get to that place but I think you and HER really need to understand what boundaries YOU are going to put in place for YOURSELF.
Just my 2 cents. Hope you are having a good weekend.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans