With that said, I'd try to make it thru the weekend without blowing up about it all. You make a much stronger statement when you can discuss it in a calm state.
I'm leaning with Denver here. I think this is where you've got to turn the tables. You really need to DB now and stop the pursuit. I do think you will have to address it and I agree with what Denver suggest in terms of not discussing the "how you know." Take some time and think thru how this discussion will play out though...be prepared, don't react, be calm. Thinking thru it will help.
Be prepared for him to blame you for his actions....I think we've all gotten our fair share of that. You can admit mistakes, without taking responsibility for his.
I'd honestly consider re-reading DB or DR now. Don't let this consume you. Focus on you, continue working on your changes. You are stronger than you know....hang in here.
